Before everyone plunge! Photograph: GGTM

IN BRIEF

Agasthian Ponnambalam turned a 2002 stage freeze over stinking socks into tonight's Best Speech.
The Amber Dawn delivered an Ice Breaker on believing what you can't see — Ice Breaker Recognition, well earned.
Harris Levin took both Best Table Topics and Best Evaluator, a rare double.
The word of the day was plunge, and nearly everyone obliged.

Dear {{First name | Fellow Toastmaster}}!

Dennis Yavuz picked the theme, then had to live by it. The water is cold at first, he told the room — then you get used to it and start swimming. If there's something you've been postponing, jump in. He'd spend the rest of the evening testing that proposition on himself: first as tonight's Toastmaster, then as a speaker with a parking-lot confession of his own.

Two guests joined us, both recently arrived from New York: Steven, a software engineer finding his stride running the Presidio, and Preta, a scientist who misses her old classroom of students.

Michelle Wen opened the speaking with a two-minute story from her years at Tiffany & Co. — the one she now reaches for whenever a job interview asks about a complex client request: a family heirloom a client was struggling to recover, and Michelle's own follow-through in helping her get it back. It set the night's tone: people remember who stays with the problem when it matters most.

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THE FEATURE

“Stinking Socks”
Agasthian Ponnambalam BEST SPEECH

Twenty-three years later, back on a stage by choice. Photograph: GGTM

In 2002, in a small town in central India, thirteen-year-old Agasthian Ponnambalam had a problem, and its name was his house captain. Shy, invisible, and smitten enough to require drastic action, his plan was to enter the school's impromptu-speaking competition and finally be seen. He had never spoken on a stage in his life.

His drawn topic was stinking socks. He walked up, said "Good afternoon," and went completely, catastrophically blank. A teacher eventually rescued him. He didn't make the team. The house captain, for what it's worth, finally knew exactly who he was — and so, less usefully, did everyone who called him Stinking Socks for the rest of the year.

The fear kept him off stages for years. What's changed isn't the fear, he said — it's what he does with it. Every mistake he survives on a stage now makes him a little gentler toward the boy who didn't.

ALSO FROM THE PODIUM

ARE YOU WILLING TO BELIEVE - Amber Dawn, Ice Breaker
Amber Dawn's Ice Breaker asked a small, enormous question. As a child searching the redwoods for fairies, she watched every adult dismiss the idea — until one of her father's friends offered something different: I'm willing to believe. She's carried the line for decades. Amber grew up sensing the world differently — hearing lights, recoiling from touch others found ordinary, knowing rain before it fell — and spent years being told it was in her head. As an adult, she learned the real explanation: she's autistic, not broken, simply operating differently than the world around her expected. Her ask for the room echoed the gift that adult once gave her: before dismissing what you can't relate to, pause. Consider it might be true.

THE PARKING SPOT - Dennis Yavuz
Dennis Yavuz followed his own opening freeze with a speech about the other half of doing the right thing. Trained — partly by his father, partly by circumstance — to take up as little space as possible, he'd spent thirty years following every rule and causing no trouble. Then one night, thirty minutes into circling for parking, a driver hogging two spaces refused to move. The old Dennis would have driven on. This one pulled alongside, asked once, asked again, and kept asking through an exchange two grown men will not repeat at their next Toastmasters meeting — until the car finally moved. Thirty years of being polite and invisible, he told the room, had finally come undone.

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Table Topics: Jumping In

Table Topics Master Kathleen Hurtubise sent the room into the deep end, asking members to name the waters they'd entered, avoided, escaped, or been shoved into.

Helen Fream, allergic to chlorine until she was thirteen and unable to swim in a pool for years, doggy-paddled her way through an entire open-water triathlon — head above water, the whole way. Harris Levin, tonight's double winner, saw a man struggling in open water and dove in without a plan; several others joined the moment he hit the water, and together they got him out. Luzee Bautista offered the evening's quiet reversal — sometimes the bravest plunge is climbing out. She walked away from a relationship just before Christmas and met her husband not long after. John, who arrived from Nigeria for graduate school with little financial cushion, credited the multiple jobs he worked at once with teaching him to keep swimming when there was no shallow end in sight. And Derick Le — whose own plunge you can read below — had a cannonball story of his own.

Also taking the plunge: Amber Dawn, Gautam, Sheila Vida, Reetu, Miwa, and Juan Basulto.

The Evaluations

The Evaluations

General Evaluator: Vedant Bothikar

Sheila Vida, evaluating Dennis, praised his vivid dialogue and physical acting, while nudging him to let his pauses land as intentional beats, not lost thoughts. Michelle Wen and Harris Levin, evaluating Amber together, praised her structure, clear voice, and gradual reveal, and shared one note: trust the story enough to look up from it more. Derick Le, evaluating Agasthian, praised his confident removal of the podium and easy, well-paced delivery, then challenged him to risk more with tone and volume.

AND THE VOTES ARE IN

THE BEST PREPARED SPEECH
Agasthian Ponnambalam

BEST TABLE TOPICS
Harris Levin

BEST EVALUATOR
Harris Levin

ICE BREAKER RECOGNITION
Amber Dawn

The Winners!

THE POP QUIZ

Were you paying attention?

1. What topic did Agasthian draw in 2002? (Stinking socks.) 2. What was Helen allergic to until she was thirteen? (Chlorine.) 3. What did Reetu discover was required before her scuba certification? (Swimming 1 kilometer in open ocean.)

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Meet Your Officers · Role 3 of 7

Vice President of Membership — Derick Le

His third appearance in tonight's Dispatch. The Vice President of Membership is the club's front door: welcoming guests and helping newcomers move from attending to belonging. Derick's own plunge, as the room now knows, came in 2025 — he quit his job after his father passed away and started a business, trading a lifetime of playing it safe (hiding behind his mother as a boy, taking a knee instead of reaching for a pass) for cannonballs only. Not a bad philosophy for the person whose job is convincing strangers to jump into a club.

Speaks about: Honoring my family’s history & what it means to leave a lasting legacy.

Enjoys: Football, golf, lifting, & traveling to places that change your perspective.

Next issue: Role 4 of 7, Vice President of Public Relations, Irene Suwarno.

THE CALENDAR

Wednesday, July 29
Speakers wanted. Speaking and functionary roles remain open — claim one before someone throws you into the deep end.

Now Recruiting
TMI Area Director. The District is recruiting Area Directors for the new term — a leadership seat built on exactly the officership skills this club produces. Details via member channels.

🤓🤓🤓 NERDS ALERT!!! 🤓🤓🤓
Pub Scholar Presents: "From TikTok to Fentanyl: Addiction Unpacked." Professors, experts, and storytellers bring niche lectures into local bars and breweries. 🤓 Link!

TUESDAY, AUGUST 4
Small Talk Skills Workshop, with Rhino Toastmasters and coach Michael Shehane. 6:00–7:30 P.M., 560 Mission St. $10 Rhino members / $20 otherwise; pizza; optional happy hour. Register via the link.

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